We
react to the word “slave”, by recoiling in disgust. The words:
“First responder” or “shelter volunteer” make us feel good.
In each case the needs of others come before their own.
Some
are forced to be a slave to their job: some chained in the kitchen.
The Fifties gave clearly defined roles. Men left for work and
provided money. Women stayed home and provided comfort. I never saw
it as “Man's work” or “Woman's work”, only that some adults
made rules – others made dinners. Today the roles are the same,
just not limited to gender.
Leading
doesn't fulfill me like nurturing does, so I cook. It is more than a
hobby, it is seeing my work comfort & sustain. My calling is to
assist and support.
This
blog is for any who wish to nurture with cooking, anyone who may also
need to comfort and restore.
Wither
you see me as “Miss Jane with a slave collar” or “June Cleaver
with a strand of pearls” isn't important. Don't focus on me. Learn
how to fix these meals, these offerings. Take ideas to help in your
caring for another.
This
blog is a tribute to one who has been a teacher and guide. I call him
“Master Indy”. Give me the complaints but please the compliments
should go to him. Without this leader I'd be lost and these words
never written. This is my way to venerate Him.
Always
His
“socialslave”
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