Saturday, June 29, 2019

Pride Pork Steaks

Pork steaks, also known as Boston butt or pork blade steak, are steaks cut from the shoulder of the pig. The name originated from St. Louis, Missouri. These are extra thick. Hand rubbed with a secret blend of spices, layered in red onions and a bit of Triple Sec thrown in for a touch of fruit flavor.


This weekend caps a worldwide celebration of the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising and the start of Pride for the LGBT community. What a better way to celebrate with a finger-licking sticky taste of summer!


Ingredients

  • 3 lg, thick cut pork steaks
  • 2 Tbsp. brown sugar
  • 2 tsp. salt
  • 1 tsp. cracked black pepper
  • 1 1/2 tsp. garlic powder
  • 1 1/2 tsp. onion powder
  • 1 1/2 tsp. smoked paprika
  • 1 tsp. celery seed
  • 1 c. barbecue sauce divided
  • ½ cup Triple Sec
  • parsley for garnish optional

Instructions

Wipeout and spray your slow cooker! Carefully slice the red onion.

 
Mix all the dry seasonings together.
Rub both sides of the pork with dry rub mix.

Lay a small bed of red onion in the bottom, Layer pork chops in A few more slices onion. Then drizzle a little barbecue sauce over each layer. 
 


Carefully pour the Triple Sec around the edges, cover and cook on low for 5-6 hours or on high for 3-4 hours.
Save about ¼ cup of barbecue sauce for basting.



Remove pork chops from slow cooker and set on a foil-lined baking sheet. Baste with remaining barbecue sauce.
Broil about 6 inches from the broiler for about a minute, or until glossy and sticky. Watch carefully so nothing burns!
Sprinkle with chopped parsley if desired.



This is served on either white rice or simple mashed potatoes. Maybe a side of a green vegetable.


For our music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3G3xm1-spg
So excited to serve this to My Master Indy
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Wednesday, June 26, 2019

Stonewall Streusel Egg Loaf Muffins


The Keto egg loaf sprung from instagram and is now found everywhere.
Everyone is talking about how it is very easy to fix and easy to fix- up! Play with all kinds of additions. Serve as a french toast or muffin as we have done here. Here we honor the 50th anniversary of Stonewall. 
 

You can bake an egg loaf in a square pan, cut as serve with syrup, or top with berries. Use your imagination and create something special!


Ingredients

4 eggs, room temperature
4 ounces no fat cream cheese, room temperature
4 Tbs butter, room temperature
1 tsp cinnamon
2 Tbs non-sugar sweetner (the kind you can use in baking)
1 teaspoon vanilla extract

½ cup flour
2 Tbs butter, chilled
1 tsp cinnamon
2 Tbs non-sugar sweetner
¼ cup chopped pecans
oil spray

Instructions

Preheat oven to 350F


In a mixer, combine eggs, cream cheese, butter, 1 teaspoon cinnamon, 2 tablespoons sweetener and the vanilla extract. Blended until well combined and slightly foamy, about one minute.



Grease your muffin cups with spray and pour the egg combo evenly into six muffin cups.
Bake for 10 minutes. While the egg loaf muffins are baking, prepare the streusel.


In a bowl, add the flour, cinnamon, sweetener, butter and pecans. Using your fingertips, combine the ingredients until well mixed but crumbly.



After the egg loaf muffins have baked for 10 minutes, top them with the cinnamon streusel. Bake another 10 minutes.
Remove muffins from oven and let cool for about 6 minutes before trying to remove. They will appear puffy at first, but will sink back down as they cool.

*Basic Egg Loaf Recipe

  • 8 eggs
  • 8 tbs butter
  • 8 oz cream cheese
Optional:  2 tsp sugar substitute
Spray your pan with non-stick cooking spray and bake it at 350 degrees for 20 minutes for muffins or 30 minutes for a 9 x 13 pan. 
 


For our music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8L9S3YvkfA


So happy to be serving this for Master Indy and His friends!
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The Road to Stonewall
As we celebrate the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising I find many have no idea what led up to the riots.
So as a quick background lets review conditions of taverns and bars that broke the laws and catered to homosexuals.
Our example focuses on New York City.

First, the state liquor laws forbade the sales of alcohol to native American Indians and known homosexuals. This would cause the loss of your license. A known homosexual on the premises constituted an unsafe environment and the establishment would be closed. No same-sex dancing was allowed, again a loss of license could be imposed.

If you were sitting at the bar, you could not face another of the same sex. You had to speak to them via the mirror behind the bar. If an officer saw you talking with another, you could be charged with "lewd and lascivious" conduct and be arrested.

Under the state anti-masquerading laws of the 1800s, you had to be wearing at least 3 articles of visible clothing ascribed to your birth gender. Again you could be arrested.

Now when you were arrested your name and home address was published in the newspaper. This most often caused loss of work and housing!

Such rules and laws provided organized crime with golden opportunities for making money. Since you couldn't get a license, you didn't have to follow any rules! Your vending machines and jukeboxes came from other branches of the mafia. Liquor was often hijacked and watered down. You could charge three times the amount normally charged across the street.

At the Stonewall Inn, there was no running water behind the bar. Dirty glasses were swished in a tub of water, dried off, and used again.

The local police also used this to raise money! Kickbacks were commonplace. The owners would be tipped off of a raid on a Wednesday. (fewer weirdos to deal with) After the place was cleared out, money was paid, the bar could then clean up and reopen for the weekend. Police often wanted the bars to make money so they could get more of it. 


This "golden handshake" was tolerated because it allowed LGBT's a place to be, to meet others and to dance!

Yes, they had created a new form of dancing apart from your partner – so the police didn't know who you were dancing with. Still, a few bars would allow you to dance in the arms of another.

Some referred to the LGBTs as "Twilight" people who only came out at night. There were places in the parks where some could gather if they were careful! But these bars offered sanctuary, a place of their own.

Entrapments were set up in the subways and parks.
Gays were hunted down like animals and "Beating up a fag" a sport enjoyed by both citizens and police.

That Friday night 50 years ago at Stonewall changed history. The bar was filled, many drag queens openly crying at the funeral of their beloved Judy Garland that day. Crowds of both rich & poor out to dance and forget their everyday battles. A microcosm of New Yorkers. Before the night was over the mixture of street kids and drag queens, closeted lawyers and bankers, became a "tribe" a people for the first time. They found an identity and flexed their muscle.

The warfare continued for six days! Bars all over the city were trashed, police cars overturned and set on fire. Broken glass and blood lined the streets of our nations largest city. Yet through all of this, a single Associated Press article was released that night and nothing further. As usual, our western culture began quickly to erase LGBT history. That way others across the world would never know. 
 

At least that's what had always happened before, but not now!





Saturday, June 22, 2019

Dorthy Gale's Steaming Bowl of Hugs


Simple things are not always easy, but they bring happiness. Consider the Classic Beef Stew. Not pretentoius, it is like a loving hug from grandma. This bowl of unconditional joy should have basic elements you wont find from a can. First the meat should be tender and not dried out. The vegetables full of blended flavors but not mushy. But most of all the thick dark soup should taste like drinking a steak.





In the kitchens of our ancester's, we find a wood burning stove with a big pot slowly simmering on a back burner. Under a watchful eye, the lady of the home is quietly singing as she cleans and cuts vegetables she pulled from the ground. Being happy and singing in the kitchen always makes the food taste better!

So how do we achieve these tastes in our modern air conditioned homes on a short time budget? HaHaHa! Dedicate some time to enjoy this process. Enjoy the comforting as well as the comfort.






Ingredients:
Meat coating:

¼ cup balsamic vinegar

1½ teaspoons Worcestershire sauce

1 tablespoon smoked paprika

1 tsp each: all spice, thyme, rosemary, basil, sugar, salt



1-2lbs beef shank

2 lbs chuck roast cut into 2 inch chunks

1 large yellow onion, cut into chunks



Stew:

2 cups beef broth (low sodium)

2 cups water

1 pound red potatoes, unpeeled and cut into chunks

1 cup carrots, cut in 1 inch pieces

1 cup frozen peas





Directions:




In a large mixing bowl, whisk together the vinegar, Worcestershire sauce, smoked paprika, and all spice, thyme, rosemary, basil, sugar, salt. Set aside.



Select a good cut of beef ~~ never use a package of “stew meat” from the mega mart. I like to also enclude some meat on a bone like beef shanks. These will slow roast, breaking down their collegin and releasing flavor.





Cut the chuck roast into 2 inch hunks. Stir these and the shanks in the herbed mix. Place with onion in cast iron dutch oven. 
 




Cover with foil then the lid. Check because you will probably have to use the losest rack in the oven. Now with the pot in the oven, turn it on to heat to 250 degrees. Walk away and get other things done for two hours!





Check the meat, it might need careful stiring so it doesn't stick to the bottom. Recover and let finish cooking for another two hours. There you have four hours of either goofing off or working while magic happens to the meat.




Carefully remove the meat and disgard the now empty bones. Cover. 
 




Place the dutch oven on the burner and with a wooden spoon scrape any bits of browned meat off the bottom of the pot.This is pure wonderful flavor! It also makes clean-up much easier.



Let this cool for about an hour and skim the fat off the top of the liquid. Some cooks let it sit overnight.



Now to make the stew.




Add the potato and carrots to the cooking liquid. Reintroduce the beef*



*you will find there is plenty of meat, so use about a third of it, bag and freeze the rest for caseroles or stroganoff!




Add a cup of water. Bring to a boil – yes this will take time! Now reduce to a slight simmer and let the flavors marry for about an hour.

Taste test and adjust any seasonings.



To thicken I prefer to use a slury made of 3 Tbs cornstarch blended with ½ cup of beef broth. Make sure it is disolved and stir this into the simmering liquid a bit at a time until the right thicknes is achieved. It will work quickly.

At the last minute add the frozen peas!



 
Suprize: Take out a ladle of the hot broth and add 1 Tbs of dried cranberry! Throw in blender to liquify then add this to the stew. It will disepear but add a special touch! Also you might choose to add a Tbs of pickle juice. If you wish a darker stew, stir in ½ tsp instant coffee! It is amazing what tiny touches like these can do. Just taste, taste and taste again before serving!




Good time to make some cornbread muffins don't you think?






So honored to serve this to my Master Indy



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Judy Garland
 

 

On June 22nd, 1969, 50 years ago, we lost the great entertainer known as Judy Garland. It is said that her New York Funeral on Friday, Jun 27th added to the dynamic of the riot at Stonewall that night.
Now while the two main groups fighting that night, the drag queens were probably the most affected. Perhaps the street kids did not identify as much with the legend. Never the less the emotions were very high that day!

Born Francis Gumm on June 10, 1922, this little girl with the great big voice grew into one of the greatest entertainers of the twentieth century.





Garland began performing in vaudeville as a child with her two older sisters and was later signed to Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer as a teenager. She was best remembered for her portrayal of Dorothy Gale in The Wizard of Oz (1939).
Appearing in more than 2 dozen films she was a box office powerhouse.
"The little girl with the leather lungs" was paired with Mickey Rooney in a series of films that defined an era.
Some of her greatest films included Meet Me in St. Louis (1944), The Harvey Girls (1946), Easter Parade (1948), and Summer Stock (1950).


Unbelievably during that time the studio bosses nearly destroyed the young actress with forced drugs and abuse over body image. It came to a head in 1950 and Garland was fired from MGM, after 15 years with the studio, amid a series of personal struggles and a suicide attempt. She was hospitalized for a “breakdown”. 

In an effort to find work she started staging concerts. These were legendary in themselves breaking all kinds of records. Her radio performances and releasing eight studio albums returned her to the heights of stardom.


Her concert appearance at Carnegie Hall in 1961, was called by many "the greatest night in show business history". The two-record album Judy at Carnegie Hall was certified gold, charting for 95 weeks on Billboard, including 13 weeks at number one. It won four Grammy Awards, including Album of the Year and Best Female Vocal of the Year.


Although her film career had diminished, two of Garland's most critically acclaimed performances came late in her career: she received a nomination for the Academy Award for Best Actress for her performance in A Star Is Born (1954), which she co-produced! Also a nomination for Best Supporting Actress for her role in Judgment at Nuremberg (1961). 

She hosted her own Emmy-nominated television series, The Judy Garland Show (1963–1964).
At age 39, Garland became the youngest and first female recipient of the Cecil B. DeMille Award for lifetime achievement in the film industry. In 1997, Garland was posthumously awarded a Grammy Lifetime Achievement Award. Several of her recordings have been inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame, and in 1999, the American Film Institute placed her among the 10 greatest female stars of classic American cinema.

Garland struggled with her physical and mental health from the time she was a teenager; her self-image was influenced and constantly criticized by film executives who believed that she was physically unattractive. Those same executives manipulated her onscreen physical appearance.

Into her adulthood, she was plagued by alcohol and substance abuse, as well as financial instability; she often owed hundreds of thousands of dollars in back taxes.

She made her last concert appearance in Copenhagen during March 1969. She married her fifth and final husband, nightclub manager Mickey Deans, at Chelsea Register Office, London, on March 15

On June 22, 1969, Deans found Garland dead in the bathroom of their rented mews house in Cadogan Lane, London; she was 47 years old. At the inquest, the coroner stated that the cause of death was "an incautious self-overdosage" of barbiturates; her blood contained the equivalent of 10 1.5-grain Seconal capsules. He stressed that the overdose had been unintentional and that no evidence suggested she had committed suicide. 

Garland's autopsy showed no inflammation of the stomach lining and no drug residue in the stomach, which indicated that the drug had been ingested over a long period of time, rather than in a single dose. Her death certificate stated that her death had been "accidental". Garland's physician noted that a prescription of 25 barbiturate pills was found by her bedside half-empty and another bottle of 100 was still unopened.


Deans traveled with her remains to New York City on June 26, where an estimated 20,000 people lined up to pay their respects at the Campbell Funeral Chapel in Manhattan, which remained open all night long to accommodate the overflow crowd. On June 27, James Mason gave a eulogy at the funeral. "Judy's great gift," Mason said, "was that she could wring tears out of hearts of rock... She gave so richly and so generously, that there was no currency in which to repay her." The public and press were barred.

At the insistence of her children, Garland's remains were disinterred from Ferncliff Cemetery in January 2017 and re-interred at the Hollywood Forever Cemetery in Los Angeles.

Gay icon
Garland had a large fan base in the gay community and became a gay icon. Many reasons are given for her standing among gay men. Her ability as a performer, the way her personal struggles mirrored those of gay men in the United States during the height of her fame, and her value as a camp figure. In the 1960s, a reporter asked how she felt about having a large gay following. She replied, "I sing to people!"


For myself I offer this one fact:
At a time when the word “Homosexual” was not to be spoken, and you could be beaten to death for looking the wrong way in the bathroom, She sang this song and reached into the hearts of LGBT's everywhere: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EEJneu2pvX8
decide for yourself!



A hero for a generation.


















Wednesday, June 12, 2019

Nasim Corniche Chicken

Corniche was a well-known model of Rolls Royce Automobiles. This chicken dish tastes rich enough to evoke memories of this fine car. Our meal is named after LGBT Pakistani poet Ifti Nasim who became a Chicago legend.


This is a decadent version of chicken thighs in a thick creamy sauce with mushrooms and onion.


Ingredients:
  • ¼ cup generic pancake mix (the kind you only add water)
  • ½ tsp salt + ½ tsp pepper + ½ tsp paprika
  • 4 boneless, skinless chicken thighs(1 to 1-1/2 pounds total)
  • ¼ cup (1/2 stick) butter
¾ cup chicken broth
  • small can sliced mushrooms
½ cup dried cranberries
  • 1 red onion, chopped
  • 2 tablespoons chopped fresh parsley
Directions:


In a shallow dish, combine pancake mix, salt, pepper, and paprika; coat chicken evenly on both sides. Retain 2 Tbs of coating mixture.



Chop the onion.
In a large skillet over medium-high heat, melt butter and add the onion. 


 

Stir for 3 – 4 minutes then place chicken on top; saute 6 minutes per side, or until browned. Remove to a platter and set aside.


 

Add the mushrooms to skillet and cook 5 to 7 minutes, stirring occasionally. 


 

Mix the coating mixture with the chicken broth. Stir well and add to mushrooms.

This will thicken nicely. 
 


When the right texture add the chicken back and the cranberries. Cover and let simmer for about 5 – 6 minutes.

Sprinkle with parsley and serve.
 Serve over bed of tri colored pasta with a side of green beans

What a rich meal for my Master!

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Ifti Nasim



Ifti Nasim was a gay Pakistani poet who moved to the United States to avoid persecution for his sexuality. His collection of poems,
Narman, is thought to be the first gay-themed book of poetry written and published in Urdu. He also founded SANGAT/Chicago, an organization which supported the South Asian LGBTQ community.

Nasim was born in Pakistan after WWII, a middle child in a large family. For Nasim, it was a difficult childhood and life as a teenager was no easier. In a predominantly Muslim country that didn’t allow people to live as openly gay, his coming out process was a painful one. “When it dawned on me that I am gay I was totally devastated,” he told “The Friday Times.” “I found no reason to live. I was very suicidal.”


At 21 years old, Nasim’s parents pushed for an arranged marriage, but Nasim said he didn’t want to sneak around on a wife. “I did not want to live a double life,” he told the “Chicago Tribune.” “I did not want to leave a wife at home and go out and pick up guys. I thought that was a dishonest way of living.”


After earning a law degree from Punjab University, Nasim asked his father to pay for a trip so that he could further his studies in the United States. He was inspired in part by an article in Life magazine that he recalls describing the US as "the place for gays to be in". He became a US citizen.


He settled first in Detroit, and, in 1974, moved to Chicago. Nasim’s house in the United States became a sanctuary for members of the LGBTQ community seeking asylum.


Nasim developed a well-known diva personality as a luxury-car salesman in Chicago and was noted for driving around in his gold Mercedes. He would wear fur coats, leather pants, a “pimp” hat, ostentatious jewelry, and at times dressed up in drag.

 


 Stories of His salesman days are legendary. Once, he sold a Mercedes to Oprah Winfrey. She asked how big the engine was. He replied, "Are you going to sleep with it?"

Another story he liked to tell: TV personality Mary Ann Childers was buying a car. She asked him to open the trunk.
"Honey," he said, "do it yourself. I just got my nails done."

Despite his flamboyant style, friends say Nasim was a private person, and very humble when it came to fighting for social justice.


In 1986, Nasim helped start Sangat Chicago, a South Asian LGBTQ organization named for the Sanskrit word for “togetherness.” He publicly railed against war, social injustice, and homophobia in his native Pakistan and other Muslim nations. In addition, he was a contributor to a Pakistani American newspaper, and regularly hosted a weekly radio show called “Radio Sargam.”

In addition to working on behalf of immigrant communities and those living with HIV/AIDS, Nasim perfected and performed his first love—poetry. He wrote in Urdu, Punjabi, and English; during his lifetime, three collections of poetry were published. “Narman” (1994), is believed to be the first open expression of homosexual themes in the Urdu language. Narman was met with controversy in Pakistan, where it had to be distributed underground. “Narman” was followed by “Myrmecophile” (2000), and “Abdoz” in 2005.


"He had this blustery personality, flamboyant," said a close friend, "and yet it all rested on a bedrock of profound human gravity.”
Nasim traveled the world reading his poems. And yet, apparently, he rarely discussed gay matters with his family. Nor did he write about gay issues in his regular column in the Weekly Pakistan News.


"He was controversial," business associate Rana Javed. "A lot of people have problems with him. But we accept him because he was a very open man. He helped the community, unbelievable, unbelievable."


He raised money for disaster relief, helped stage a peace rally after 9/11 and sent money to relatives in Pakistan.


He drove himself to the hospital in 2003 with a heart attack. As he told the story, when he arrived in his gold Mercedes, wearing a plush mink, a nurse came on to him. "Not now, please," he said.


After that heart attack, he changed. He started writing even more relentlessly and broadened his themes. His 2005 poetry collection, "
Abdoz," contains these lines:
I feel my life was spent in a submarine
The journey has ended; I saw nothing.

He took to dressing less ostentatiously, preferring a tux or jeans; in a desire to play with his image. He still liked the occasional turban.


Nasim died on July 22, 2011, after suffering a second heart attack at the age of 64. He was survived by his partner of nearly 30 years. He wished to keep his private life secret.


“No one made me gay. I was born this way,” Nasim once said. “The only thing is I did not lie about it. Many homosexuals hide behind the curtain of so-called marriage. We should accept the truth, no matter how bitter it is.”


Nasim was mourned by friends and fans from around the world. 1,000 or so crowded into the Muslim Community Center on Elston Avenue to pray over his body.


"According to every convention, my friend Ifti was all wrong," blogged Azra Raza, a prominent oncologist. "He was born in the wrong country. He should have been born in Hollywood. ... He was born in the wrong body. He should have been Marilyn Monroe."


Hindus, Muslims, and Christians came, gay people and straight, taxi drivers and the brother of a former Pakistani president.
Just to mark the rare life of a man who searched for harmony.