Wednesday, June 5, 2019

Fred Days Picture Perfect Chicken & Beans

Tonight meal features chicken roasted over a bed of barbecue beans in the style of the Carolinas. White meat with a texture so moist and juicy it's almost like butter! We dedicate this recipe to LGBT Hero F. Holland Day, a publisher who proved the new magic of photography could be art.

Boneless chicken breasts slathered in mustard and brown sugar cooked over barbecued beans is a dish you will love. Here slave served it with a savory side of fresh green beans. 
 

Ingredients:
2 boneless skinless chicken breasts
Large can baked beans
1 yellow onion, chopped
2 slices bacon
Yellow mustard
½ cup brown sugar, devided
1 Tbs worchester sauce

Directions:
Pre heat oven to 400. 


 
Do your chopping



 Cut each slice of bacon in two and partialy cook in medium skillet, just until grease starts to flow. Remove to paper towels to drain.
Add ½ cup of chopped onion to skillet grease and let cook for about 6 minutes, till it starts to turn translucient.
Remove to paper towel.


Drain the can of baked beans well! Place in a large bowl with ¼ cup of brown sugar, the onions, 1 Tbs mustard and 1 Tbs Worchester sauce. Mix well.

Spray a 9 x 13 baking dish well and spoon the beans in to cover the bottom.

Now place the other ¼ cup of brown sugar on a plate.


Holding the chicken breast in one hand paint one side with a pastry brush and mustard.


Now turn that side down into the brown sugar and press in. Then paint the other side and roll to cover the piece on all sides.


Press this into the bed of beans and place two half strips of bacon on top.
Repeat with the second piece.
Roast in the 400 degree oven for atleast 45 mintes. Check with a instant-read threometer. When done it shoud read about 160. Remove from oven and let rest for 5 minutes!

Serve with a savory side of green vegetables.




 
So honored to be serving this to my Master Indy

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Fred Holland Day



Fred Holland Day, Born during the Civil War and died during the Great Depression. A photographer and publisher. He was the first in the United States to advocate that photography should be considered fine art.
Day was born into a wealthy Boston family and lived a life of wide choices and free thinking. He refused the reticence expected of Bostonians of his class, in favor of the personal expression that made his work seem scandalous then and groundbreaking now. Still, he kept his sexuality to himself.
Day may not have wanted to make the same mistake his idol, Oscar Wilde, had made, the one that ultimately cost the playwright’s life.


While some historians have called his mother “domineering,” her unusually progressive attitudes towards immigrants and African-Americans, were carefully passed to her son. Anna took the democratic teachings of her Universalist faith seriously and her son inherited her world-view to great effect in his later work.


Instead of following most of his friends to Harvard, Day took a desk job in a book publishing company at the urging of his father, who thought his son’s artistic interests needed leveling. The working world did not alter Fred’s love of art or beauty but he did put the experience to good use when he later founded his own publishing house,
Copeland and Day.


A milestone in Day's life happened upon his friendship and business partnership with
Herbert Copeland, described as “a well-educated, debonair, sophisticated young bachelor,” They shared an interest in books and art. Their partnership created one of the most respected publishing houses at the time. Between 1893 and the year it folded in 1899, Copeland and Day published about a hundred books by authors that included Oscar Wilde, Aubrey Beardsley, and Robert Louis Stevenson.


Like Day, Copeland was almost certainly gay. He had relationships with men that he called “intimate.” In a letter to Day, complaining about a relationship with a married man, Copeland wrote, “I was desperately taken with him at first sight, and deliberately laid myself out to catch him…before I knew he was married.”
At 22, Day began taking photographs, mostly of the homes of local authors, thereby combining his two passions: books and photography.
He wrote extensively about photography's position as fine art and organized international photography exhibitions to further his claim. He asked: "And if it chances that a picture is beautiful, by what name shall we call it? Shall we say that it is not a work of art, because our vocabulary calls it a photograph?"

Day's life and works had long been controversial since his photographic subjects were often nude male youths. Pam Roberts, in F. Holland Day writes: "Day never married and his sexual orientation, whilst it is widely assumed that he was homosexual, because of his interests, his photographic subject matter, his general flamboyant demeanor, was, like much else about him, a very private matter."






Day was famous for befriending young men from the slums of Boston. The most famous of these was poet Kahlil Gibran. He was generous financially and by all accounts, treated Gibran well. Day was instrumental in forwarding Gibran's literary career.
Day belonged to the pictorialist movement which regarded photography as fine art and which often included symbolist imagery. As was common at the time, his photographs allude to classical antiquity in manner, composition and often in theme.


From 1896 through 1898 Day experimented with Christian themes, using himself as a model for Jesus. Neighbors in Norwood, Massachusetts assisted him in an outdoor photographic staged photography re-enactment of the crucifixion of Jesus.


7 Words:
From 1895 to 1898 Day undertook a project that was without precedent: an extended series—some 250 negatives—showing scenes of the life of Christ, from the Annunciation to the Resurrection, in which he played the title role. For his production, Day starved himself, let his beard grow long, and imported cloth and a cross from Syria. Just prior to the reenacted Crucifixion, he made this series of close-up self-portraits—the most powerful images in his entire series—which represent Christ’s seven last words:
FATHER FORGIVE THEM; THEY KNOW NOT WHAT THEY DO.
TODAY THOU SHALT BE WITH ME IN PARADISE.
WOMAN, BEHOLD THY SON; SON, THY MOTHER
MY GOD, MY GOD, WHY HAST THOU FORSAKEN ME?
I THIRST.
INTO THY HANDS I COMMEND MY SPIRIT.
IT IS FINISHED.















For many people, Day’s self-portraits as Christ were—and remain—unsettling, as one tries to reconcile their fact and fiction. Day defended the use of photography for sacred subjects as a matter of artistic freedom.

It was written: "Few paintings contain as much that is spiritual and sacred in them as do the ‘Seven Words’ of Mr. Day. . . . If we knew not its origin or its medium how different would be the appreciation of some of us, and if we cannot place our range of vision above this prejudice the fault lies wholly with us. If there are limitations to any of the arts, they are technical; but of the motif to be chosen the limitations are dependent on the man—if he is a master he will give us great art and ever exalt himself." 
  
Day often made only a single print from a negative. He used only the platinum process, being unsatisfied with any other, and lost interest in photography when platinum became unobtainable following the Russian Revolution.
The pictorial and symbolist photographic style went out of fashion in the face of a shift towards early modernism in the art world. Two thousand of his prints and negatives were lost in a 1904 fire. The few hundred that survived were sent to the Royal Photographic Society in the 1930s.

Was Day a gay man? We can’t know for certain but most everything points to it. He was unmarried and aside from his chaste friendship with Louise Guiney, all of his important adult relationships were with men. He used attractive young men in his photographs and befriended young men from Boston’s slums throughout his life. We know that his business partner, Herbert Copeland shared his interest in young men. His literary heroes were Oscar Wilde and HonorĂ© de Balzac. The former carried on a public affair with a young man which was his ruin and the latter included gay characters in his realist fiction.




The 1890s were not a time for public pronouncements on sexual desire. But that didn’t mean Day was without desire. Maybe it was better, more artistic, to remain silent. After all, his hero John Keats, wrote: “Heard melodies are sweet, but those unheard are sweeter…”




Saturday, June 1, 2019

Auntie Mame Does A Roasted Beef and Broccoli

This healthier take on a classic Beef and Broccoli is dedicated to LGBT hero Patrick Dennis, aka Edward Evert Tanner III. Read about him in a short article after the recipe.



Most of the cooking is done in the oven. It is served on cauliflower rice! More fresh vegetables than beef, this meal is filling and as wonderful as any paid for in a restaurant.

 

 Ingredients

¼ cup soy sauce (low sodium)
1 Tbs sesame oil
4 cups fresh broccoli florets (about ½ lb)
1 medium head cauliflower, stem removed
½ cup shredded carrots
1 small can sliced waterchestnuts
2 Tbs corn starch
½ tsp salt
1¼lb boneless sirloin steak, cut into 2-inch pieces buy good meat!
Green onions, sliced on the bias, if desired

Directions:



In bowl, mix dressing (soy sauce & sesame oil) 
 

Do your cutting: Slice the steak across the grain into strips ½" wide. Cut each strip into bite-size pieces, approximately ½" – ¾" in size. Place the chunks of beef into the bowl of dressing. Let the meat marinate for 20-30 minutes.


Heat oven to 425°F. Line a 15x10x1-inch rimmed sheet pan with foil and spray with cooking spray.
Set up a big bowl of water with ½ cup white vinegar. 
 


Cut the cauliflower into chunks, removing the stem, then rinse them well in the vinegar water, remove to drain on paper towels.



Cut up the brocolli into florets. Let them sit in the bowl of vinegar water for now. 
 


Working in batches, pulse the dried cauliflower in a food processor until coarse in texture, like rice. Place any excess in a zipper bag to freeze for another use later.



Drain the brocolli and mix in large bowl with shredded carrots and drained sliced water chestnuts. Drizzle with olive oil and mix to coat.

Pour broccoli mixture onto pan; spread in single layer leaving an open area to the side.

Drain the beef reserving liquid. Add beef to cooking sheet with broccoli.

Roast 15 to 20 minutes or until beef is cooked to desired doneness (145°F for medium-rare) and broccoli is fork-tender.



Meanwhile heat a skillet over medium-high heat. Place 2 Tbs oil and add the cauliflower. Use a lid to cover so the cauliflower steams and becomes more tender. Cook for a total of 5-8 minutes, stirring occasionally, then season as desired.
Bring the remaining marinade to a boil. Make a slurry with 1 tbs of cornstarch and stir into pot until thick.


Serve beef chunks mixed with vegetables on bed of cauliflower rice with sauce spooned on top.





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To gratify, spoil, comfort and please,
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Patrick Dennis
Aka Edward Everett Tanner III

Edward Tanner III was born 1921 in Chicago. A gay man, he is the only author to have had three novels on the New York Times best-seller list at the same time.
His novel Auntie Mame: An irreverent escapade (1955) was one of the bestselling American books of the 20th century. It spent 112 weeks on the bestseller list, selling more than 2,000,000 copies in five different languages.
The manuscript was turned down by fifteen publishers before being accepted by the Vanguard Press.

He wrote under the name Patrick Dennis. He led a double life as a conventional husband and father, and as a closeted gay man.

In 1962, having been an alcoholic for many years, he attempted suicide for the third time. He was locked in a mental institution where he was subjected to electroshock therapy.

After being released he left his wife and children and later became a well-known participant in Greenwich Village's gay scene.
By the 1970s all of his books were out of print. He left writing to become a butler, a job that he truly enjoyed. Although he was using his real name; his employers had no idea that their butler, Tanner, was the world-famous author Patrick Dennis.
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His father nicknamed him "Pat" before he was born. When he was old enough, he said that he liked "Pat" better than "Edward", and so Pat he became. From his earliest days, Tanner was the life of the party. Everyone loved him for his wit, polished manners, and charm. Everyone except for his father. The conservative-minded Edward Tanner II could scarcely tolerate the mannerisms of his budding bon vivant. 

It is said that Pat's homosexuality was obvious from an early age. Childhood friend Gordon Muchow commented, "When he walked, he kind of rose up on his toes." It was a surprise when the effeminate youngster joined the boy scouts. He wanted to join because he could be on display in creative ways-- by writing, designing, directing and performing comedic skits for his troupe. Like the characters he would go on to create, the boy refused to go unnoticed.
 
In 1942, he joined the American Field Service, working as an ambulance driver in North Africa and the Middle East.

According to his biographer Eric Meyers: "Tanner and his partner were loading a wounded soldier on a stretcher into their ambulance. Tanner had his head bent; his partner didn't. A flying bullet missed Tanner's head and went through his partner's head and killed him instantly." It affected the young man tremendously.

Tanner began to rely more and more heavily on an imagined, fanciful version of reality. Eventually, his reliance leaned a little too far; he lapsed into full psychosis. A psychiatrist sent him home. He was posthumously awarded the Purple Heart for his service.

At home, he landed himself a rather lucrative gig at the Franklin Spier advertising agency... which specialized in publishing. At first, he was assigned to ghostwrite three books.

When those proved to be a success, he was entrusted to publish two novels of his own. He chose to write under a pen name. For Oh What a Wonderful Wedding! and House Party, Tanner would be known as "Virginia Rowans". Jane Cobb of the New York Times wrote in her review, "Miss Rowans writes with a fine feminine realism."

By the end of 1948, Convinced it was what he was supposed to do, Dennis married Louise Stickney, with whom he had two children. The books of "Virginia Rowans" brought Tanner some minor attention.

But it wasn't until the next book that he really hit the big time. It took him a year, but he had compiled a series of stories about a young boy who is adopted by his extravagant Aunt. Since it was narrated from the boy's point of view, he signed his manuscript "Patrick Dennis". His literary agent was eager to send it around.

In total, nineteen publishers rejected the manuscript of Auntie Mame. The Vanguard Press loved the book. They published Auntie Mame in January of 1955. By April of that year, it was a runaway smash. At its height, Auntie Mame was selling 1,000 copies a day. It was flying off the shelves!

" Life is a banquet, and most poor sons of bitches are starving!" ------Auntie Mame 

Tanner made millions and had his works adapted into successful plays, musicals, TV shows, and films. But he also 
spent every cent he made.

He spent the last years of his life as a butler to the wealthy. And he loved the job, too. He had found his place! It offered him the chance to earn a decent income, live in some fancy homes, and serve with his wonderful sense of style and impeccable breeding. His favorite employers were none other than Roy and Joan Kroc— the owners of McDonalds. Tanner built a persona so elaborate that not even his wife and children ever quite knew the real Pat.

Based on extensive interviews with friends, and relatives, the book
Uncle Mame, reveals an intimate portrait of the man who brought camp to the American mainstream and even in his lowest moments personified — the glamour and wit he captured on the page.

"I always start writing with a clean piece of paper and a dirty mind." ---Edward Everett Tanner III

Edward Everett Tanner III (aka "Patrick Dennis", aka "Virginia Rowans") died in
1976 of complications from pancreatic cancer. He was 55-years old. At the time of his death, his employers didn't know his true identity—creator of one of the most iconic characters of the 20th century. 

 

Thursday, May 23, 2019

Beck's Beans and S'rooms

This recipe is dedicated to Kristen Beck! Read about her story after the recipe.


This is a great way to fix fresh green beans. Elevate them above the simple side dish. Adding mushrooms with a bit of garlic and almonds really packs in the flavors. You could use this as a vegetarian main dish or a side for a fancy dinner!


Ingredients

  • 1 tablespoon olive oil
  • ¼ tsp salt
  • ½ cup red onion chopped
  • 2 ounces mushroom, sliced (about 1 ½ cups)
  • ½ cup low salt beef broth
  • 1 Tbs yellow mustard
  • 10-ounce green beans, trimmed (about 3 cups)
  • 1 tablespoon unsalted butter
  • 1/8 tsp pepper
  • ¼ cup almonds

Directions



Rinse and slice the mushrooms. 


 
Then rinse the fresh green beans.
Chop the red onion and freeze any left-overs.



Snap the ends off the beans.



Heat a large non-stick skillet over medium-high heat. Add the almonds and stir. Keep an eye on this so they don't burn. They will be toasted when you can smell the aroma coming up. Remove them to a dish and set aside.



At that point add oil and ¼ cup chopped red onion. Stir and add the mushrooms.
Saute for about 6 minutes.



Place the green beans into the skillet and stir to combine.
Add the Tbs of mustard and the ½ cup of broth, cover quickly.
Let the steam from the broth cook the beans. Cook 6 minutes or until beans are crisp-tender. Stir in butter and serve.



What a wondeful aroma will grace your table with these simple beans.
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To nourish, support and maintain.
To gratify, spoil, comfort and please,
to nurture, assist, and sustain
…..I cook!

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Kristin Beck




Beck is a retired United States Navy SEAL who gained attention in 2013 when she came out as a trans woman. She published her memoir, Warrior Princess: A U.S. Navy SEAL's Journey to Coming out Transgender, detailing her experiences.
Beck served in the U.S. Navy for twenty years and is the first openly transgender former U.S. Navy SEAL.
Designated as an elite antiterrorism special forces unit, the legendary SEAL Team Six — the one that killed Osama Bin Laden — until recently benefited from the storied first-in-line, first-at-the-front, and first-to-jump tactical contributions of a team member formerly known as Senior Chief Petty Officer Chris T. Beck. 
 
Today, Kristin Beck, the former SEAL paratrooper, expert marksman, and multiple-battleground veteran, has earned enough medals for courageous acts in military service to her country to crowd the buttons of her dress-blues U.S. Navy uniform.

Recognized as the first former U.S. Navy SEAL to come out as transgender, Beck is modest about her accomplishments, which include (among several other military honors) a Bronze Star and a Purple Heart during her service in the Middle East.
"Beck was often the 'breacher,' the first one through the door on hundreds of raids in Iraq and Afghanistan, and became a team leader, a senior chief," said reporter Dan Noyes in 2014. Beck paid the price, receiving a Purple Heart for ... many injuries in combat and a Bronze Star with the 'V' for valor."

Beck was christened Christopher T. Beck in June 1966 and grew up on a farm. As early as the age of five, she was drawn to feminine clothes and toys but was encouraged to adopt masculine roles by her parents. Before transitioning, she married twice and has two sons from her first marriage. She recounts in her memoir how her gender dysphoria contributed to her inability to emotionally mature while being in a male body, adding conflict to her sexual identity, although she never really felt gay. Additionally, her duties as a U.S. Navy SEAL kept her on missions away from home, which distanced her from family members. Before enlisting in the United States Navy, Beck attended Virginia Military Institute from 1984 through 1987.


Beck served for 20 years in the U.S. Navy SEALs before her transition, taking part in 13 deployments, including seven combat deployments. Beck completed Basic Underwater Demolition/SEAL (BUD/S) training with class 179 in 1991 and subsequently served with SEAL Team 1. She was a member of the United States Naval Special Warfare Development Group (also known as DEVGRU), a special counter-terrorism unit popularly called SEAL Team Six, and received multiple military awards and decorations, including a Bronze Star and a Purple Heart. She told Anderson Cooper she wanted to be a SEAL because they were the "toughest of the tough".

Beck retired from the Navy in 2011 with a final rating as Senior Chief Special Warfare Operator when she began transitioning by dressing as a woman. In 2013, she began hormone therapy, preparing herself for sex reassignment surgery. During an interview with Anderson Cooper in early June 2013, she stated that she never came out during her military career and that "No one ever met the real me". After coming out publicly in 2013 by posting a photo of herself as a woman on LinkedIn, she received a number of messages of support from her former military colleagues. 
 

Warrior Princess
Beck co-wrote Warrior Princess with Anne Speckhard, a psychologist at the Georgetown University School of Medicine. Speckhard was doing a study on the resilience of the U.S. Navy SEALs, that is, the coping mechanisms employed by SEALs to deal with their intense job demands. Speckhard first met Beck at a counter-terrorism conference. After Beck agreed to discuss coping mechanisms, a follow-up meeting took place in a gay bar, with Beck now dressed in female attire, to Speckhard's surprise. A five-hour meeting led to Speckhard agreeing to help Beck write her life story.
In the book, Speckhard notes that Beck had a desire to die honorably "so that [she] wouldn't have to wrestle anymore with the emotional pain that stemmed from the lack of congruency between [her] gender identity and body". In her introduction to the book, Beck writes:
I do not believe a soul has a gender, but my new path is making my soul complete and happy...I hope my journey sheds some light on the human experience and most importantly helps heal the "socio-religious dogma" of purely binary gender.


OutServe Magazine praised the book, calling it "one of the smartest and most important books of the year". The "don't ask, don't tell" policy was repealed in 2011, the ban on openly transgender people serving in the U.S. armed forces still remained. Days before the release of Warrior Princess, Metro Weekly's Poliglot column reported that the Pentagon had celebrated LGBT Pride Month in a memo while avoiding mention of transgender military personnel; the Pentagon memo read in part: "We recognize gay, lesbian and bisexual service members and LGBT civilians for their dedicated service to our country." While restrictions on sexual orientation were lifted in 2010-2011, restrictions on gender identity remained in place due to Department of Defense regulations until 2016, when the Obama administration ended the ban on transgender Americans serving in the military. Now the Trump administration is ordering a re-instatement of that ban.

In January, the ban on military service got the go-ahead from the Supreme Court. The US policy under question bars from military service, with some exceptions, people who have gender dysphoria — a disconnect between a person's gender identity and their sex assigned at birth — or are seeking to transition or have transitioned, people whose medical diagnosis would require a transition during service, and people who can't demonstrate "stability" in their assigned sex for at least the three years before applying to serve. The Pentagon has claimed that gender dysphoria impairs functionality. 
 
While the Pentagon insists the above criteria did not equate to a ban on transgender military service, it's unclear whether most transgender people could meet those requirements.
"Due to lower courts issuing nationwide injunctions, our military had been forced to maintain a prior policy that poses a risk to military effectiveness and lethality for over a year," the Department of Justice has maintained. 
 
Former Defense Secretary Jim Mattis wrote last February that the inclusion of such people in the military would decrease the "readiness, lethality, and effectiveness of our military." 
 
Beck, called the Trump administration's position on transgender military service "bulls---."
The Pentagon had been "intentionally confusing" on the issue of trans service and that it failed to even define the concepts of lethality and effectiveness.
"I was a Navy SEAL for 20 years — I was pretty lethal," she said.
While Beck's unique point of view found no home in the Trump administration or with the Pentagon officially, the top leaders of the US Army, Navy, Air Force, and Marine Corps all said in April that they found no issues with transgender people serving.

Lady Valor
Lady Valor: The Kristin Beck Story, a documentary, aired on CNN on September 4, 2014.
The Retired Navy SEAL is ready to fire up her acting career ... and she's calling on Hollywood producers to start considering more LGBT actors for LGBT roles. 
Kristen, says she just signed in January, with acting agency Nine9 ... and she's ready to get to work. 
Kristin says she knows tons of transgender actors ... and she thinks Hollywood should do a better job of at least giving them a chance to land LGBT roles.
Gay and lesbian representation increased in major Hollywood films in 2018 (18.2 percent) — but there were still zero trans characters.

We applaud your service and look forward to seeing more from you: Kristen Beck!