Sunday, May 12, 2019

Robert Ross Roasted One Tray Meal


This easy, and fairly healthy, roasted meal lets the oven do the work with one baking tray to clean up afterword. We dedicate it to Robert Ross a true LGBT hero who stood by the side of his friend Oscar Wilde in life and in death. A real BFF! Read a short article about this brave man after the recipe.


Fresh green beans and broccoli roasted in light olive oil and flavored with a bit of bratwurst shows us how we can cut down on the protein and fill up with fresh vegetables! If we make the vegetables taste as good as the meat, where is the downside? Expect lower fat and cholesterol!



Ingredients
  • 3 uncooked bratwurst
  • ½ to ¾ lbs fresh green beans
  • ½ to ¾ lbs fresh broccoli
  • Garlic powder
  • Ranch Dressing Packet
  • ½ cup Grated Parmesan Cheese
  • olive oil
Instructions

Fill a large bowl half way with cold water and ½ cup white vinegar.
Dump the fresh green beans into this and give it a stir.


Preheat oven to 400. Take a rimmed baking sheet, cover with aluminum foil and spray.
 


Cut the broccoli into florets 

 
Rinse the beans and replace with the broccoli


Set up bowls and snap the ends off the green beans, place in large bowl and drizzle with olive oil.


Next: Rinse the broccoli, Drain well! Then place in large bowl and drizzle with olive oil



Now place the green beans on one end of the tray. Place the broccoli on the other end leaving a space in the middle.


In a small bowl mix 1 Tbs of ranch dressing mix with 1 tsp of garlic powder: sprinkle this over the green beans.

Now sprinkle a very light bit of parmesan cheese on the broccoli.




Place the brats into one of the bowl that still has olive oil in it. Pierce with a tooth pic on the ends and down one side.
Then place the brats in the center

Roast on the bottom rack of the oven for 25 minutes.



Raise tray to top rack under the broiler for about 3 – 4 minutes. Times may vary with each oven so watch closely.
Remove carefully. Spoon the beans into one serving dish and the broccoli into another. Place the brats on the platter.
Here is a full meal, if you like serve with bread.




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Robert Ross


Robert Baldwin Ross (25 May 1869 – 5 October 1918) was a Canadian journalist, art critic and art dealer, best known for his relationship with Oscar Wilde, to whom he was a devoted friend, lover and literary executor.

A grandson of the Canadian reform leader Robert Baldwin, and son of John Ross and Augusta Elizabeth Baldwin, Ross was a pivotal figure on the London literary and artistic scene from the mid-1890s to his death at 48 years old. He mentored several literary figures, including Siegfried Sassoon. His open homosexuality, in a period when male homosexual acts were illegal, brought him many hardships.

At Cambridge
In 1888 Ross was accepted at King's College, Cambridge, where he became a victim of bullying, probably because he made no secret of his homosexuality. Perhaps also his outspoken journalism in the university paper. Ross caught pneumonia after being half drowned in a fountain by a number of students who had, according to Ross, the full support of a professor, Arthur Tilley. After recovering, he fought for an apology from his fellow students, which he received, but he also sought the dismissal of Tilley. The college refused to punish Tilley and Ross dropped out. Soon after that, he chose to "come out" to his family.

Robbie Ross would soon become one of Britain's most scandalous and controversial figures. He was gay and he didn't hide it, a fact that didn't go over very well in Victorian England, where they were busy passing laws against such things.

The harassment started early and would continue throughout his life: he would be threatened with jail time, dragged into court, demonized in the press and eventually forced to leave the country altogether.

During the First World War, an MP even wrote a pair of articles — one of them called "The Cult of the Clitoris," if you can believe it — accusing Ross of being part of a conspiracy of 47,000 treacherous "perverts" helping the Germans to "exterminat[e] the manhood of Britain" by turning Britons gay.




In 1886 Ross met Oscar Wilde. Maureen Borland, the author of Wilde's Devoted Friend: Life of Robert Ross (1990) claims that it is likely that Alex Ross, Robert's elder brother and a literary critic, made the introduction, possibly at the Savile Club."
Ross seems to have been a perfect fit for Wilde's sexual hunger and refusal to betray his heterosexual bed. (Oscar's wife had just given birth to his second son).
In 1893, Ross had a sexual relationship with a boy of sixteen, the son of friends. The boy confessed to his parents that he had engaged in sexual activity with Ross and also admitted to a sexual encounter with Lord Alfred Douglas while he was a guest at Ross's house.

After meetings with lawyers, the parents were persuaded not to go to the police, since their sons might be seen not as victims but as equally guilty and so could go to prison.

Douglas led Wilde into the seedy Victorian underground of gay prostitutes and brothels. And it was Douglas' messed up relationship with his homophobic bully of a father, which eventually landed Wilde in jail.

When Douglas' father, the Marquess of Queensberry,left Wilde a poorly-spelled calling card denouncing him as a "somdomite," Wilde sued Queensbury for libel. But when it turned out there was plenty of evidence against him, he was forced to drop the case. In the aftermath, Ross begged Wilde to flee, but the author ignored him, was arrested, tried and eventually convicted of sodomy and gross indecency.

Wilde later recalled: "I was a man who stood in symbolic relations to the art and culture of my age.... I amused myself with being a flaneur, a dandy, a man of fashion. I surrounded myself with the smaller natures and the meaner minds. I became the spendthrift of my own genius, and to waste an eternal youth gave me a curious joy. Tired of being on the heights, I deliberately went to the depths in the search for new sensation. What the paradox was to me in the sphere of thought, perversity became to me in the sphere of passion. Desire, at the end, was a malady, or a madness, or both. I grew careless of the lives of others. I took pleasure where it pleased me, and passed on. I forgot that every little action of the common day makes or unmakes character, and that therefore what one has done in the secret chamber one has some day to cry aloud on the housetop. I ceased to be lord over myself. I was no longer the captain of my soul, and did not know it."

Wilde was arrested on 5th April and taken to Holloway Prison. The following day, Alfred Taylor, the owner of a male brothel Wilde had used, was also arrested. Taylor refused to give evidence against Wilde and both men were charged with offences under the Criminal Law Amendment Act.

Douglas was not called to give evidence at trial, but his letters to Wilde were entered into evidence, as was his poem, Two Loves. Called on to explain its concluding line - "I am the love that dares not speak its name" Wilde answered that it meant the "affection of an elder for a younger man".

Both men were found guilty and sentenced to two years' penal servitude with hard labour. Ross was a regular visitor and according to his biographer, he "was his most constant and loyal friend".
When Wilde got out after two long, miserable years in prison, Ross was waiting for him with a house in France.

Though Wilde would forgive Douglas for his role and see him on and off over the next few years, it was Ross who was with him when he died. And it was Ross who took care of his affairs after his death, securing his legacy by buying back the rights to his works — which the author had been forced to sell during his trial — and stamping out the fake porn which was being published under his name.

Before his death in 1900, Wilde appointed Ross his literary executor; but, with Wilde's estate bankrupt, it was not until 1905 that Ross was able to pay Wilde's creditors and annul the bankruptcy. In 1908 Ross published, in fourteen volumes, The Collected Works of Oscar Wilde.

Ross was also director and administrator of the Carfax Gallery, a small avant-garde art gallery in London, which, under his direction, gained a reputation for showing the work of unknown artists. In 1908 he became the art critic of The Morning Post.

In 1911 the publisher Martin Secker commissioned Arthur Ransome to write a book on Oscar Wilde. He was given considerable help by Robert Ross. Ross wanted Ransome's book to help rehabilitate Wilde's reputation. He also wanted to get revenge on Lord Alfred Douglas, who he considered had destroyed Wilde. He did this by letting Ransome see the unabridged copy of a letter where Wilde accused Douglas of vanity, treachery and cowardice.
The book, Wilde: A Critical Study, was published on 12th February 1912. The following month, on 9th March, Lord Douglas filed an action for libel against Ransome and Secker.
Douglas admitted during cross-examination that he had deserted Wilde before his original conviction and had not returned to England, let alone visited his friend in prison.
After a three-day trial, the jury took just over two hours to return its verdict. Arthur Ransome was found not guilty of libel and the publicity the book received meant that it was now going to be a bestseller.
Robert Ross was again drug into court after Lord Douglas circulated letters
accusing him of being a homosexual. Ross had no option but to accuse Lord Douglas of criminal libel.


In November 1914, Douglas appeared in court. Although the case went very much against Ross, the jury was divided. Before the case could be reheard, Ross abandoned the action, and offered to pay Douglas' costs. Douglas, short of money, had to accept. Ross was forced to leave his post as valuer of pictures and drawings for the Board of Inland Revenue and retire from public life.

According to Maureen Borland, the author of Wilde's Devoted Friend: Life of Robert Ross (1990): "During the Great War, in Ross's delightful and witty company, lucky soldiers they could forget the horrors of trench warfare. Although these men were not among his sexual partners, Ross was clearly homosexual and had at least two long-term relationships. He shared a house for fifteen years with More Adey; a shorter partnership, with Frederick Smith, ended in 1917, when Smith took up a diplomatic appointment in Stockholm. Ross discouraged discussion of his sex life, and maintained a lifelong silence about the exact nature of his relationship with Wilde."
In December 1917, Noel Billing published an article in The Imperialist by Arnold Henry White that argued that Germany was under the control of homosexuals (White called them urnings): "Espionage is punished by death at the Tower of London, but there is a form of invasion which is as deadly as espionage: the systematic seduction of young British soldiers by the German urnings and their agents... Failure to intern all Germans is due to the invisible hand that protects urnings of enemy race... When the blond beast is an urning, he commands the urnings in other lands. They are moles. They burrow. They plot. They are hardest at work when they are most silent." 

 
On 16th February, 1918, the front page of The Vigilante had a headline, "The Cult of the Clitoris". This was followed by the paragraph: "To be a member of Maud Allan's private performances in Oscar Wilde's Salome one has to apply to a Miss Valetta, of 9 Duke Street, Adelphi, W.C. If Scotland Yard were to seize the list of those members I have no doubt they would secure the names of several of the first 47,000." This was a reference to the so-called Black Book of those seduced by the German homosexuals.
In this court case, Billing was acquitted of all charges. As James Hayward has pointed out: "Hardly ever had a verdict been received in the Central Criminal Court with such unequivocal public approval. The crowd in the gallery sprang to their feet and cheered, as women waved their handkerchiefs and men their hats."
Basil Thomson, who was head of Special Branch, an in a position to know that Eileen Villiers-Stuart and Harold S. Spencer had lied in court, wrote in his diary, "Every-one concerned appeared to have been either insane or to have behaved as if he were."

Later in 1918 Ross was preparing to travel to Melbourne, to open an exhibition at the National Gallery of Victoria, when he died suddenly in London.

In 1950, on the 50th anniversary of Wilde's death, Ross's ashes were placed into Wilde's tomb in Père Lachaise Cemetery in Paris.
Ross Had been responsible for commissioning Jacob Epstein to produce the sculpture now to be seen on Wilde's tomb. He even requested that Epstein design a small compartment for Ross's own ashes. As a result of his faithfulness to Wilde even in death Ross was vindictively pursued by Lord Alfred Douglas, who repeatedly attempted to have him arrested and tried for homosexual conduct. 




Thursday, May 9, 2019

Hurley's V8 Dinner

Tonight's meal is dedicated to racing icon Hurley Haywood and LGBT hero.
We will use the slow cooker to simmer a chuck roast with onions, stewed tomatoes, and carrots in a sauce of vegetable juice that makes a wonderful tomato style gravy.


Yes, this will be a full meal that mostly cooks itself but we will add some roasted vegetables to make the meal!

Ingredients:
2-3 lbs chuck roast
1 yellow onion, sliced thin
1 28oz can stewed tomatoes
1 cup baby carrots
2 cups low salt V8 Juice
2 tbs oil

Directions:
Always start by wiping out and spraying the slow cooker.

 Slice the onion and spread on the bottom of the cooker.



Heat oil in a skillet and brown the roast on both sides, about 6 minutes
each.

 
Add the carrots to the cooker, then the meat. 


 
Cover with the can of stewed tomatoes and the 2 cups vegetable juice. Cover and let cook on low for 8 hours.



Roasted Vegetables

Ingredients:
2 zucchini
½ package broccoli florets
1 red onion
1 large can sweet potatoes, rinsed

Directions:
Preheat oven to 400 degrees line a baking sheet with foil.
Peel and cut the zucchini, rinse the sweet potatoes, cut the red onion in wedges.


Place everything in a large bowl with ¼ cup olive oil and stir well.

Arrange on tray and roast in the bottom rack of the oven to 25 minutes.
Stir and return for another 10 to 15 minutes.

Now to put the meal together:

Carefully remove meat and wrap with foil, let rest for 5 minutes.
Make instant mashed potatoes.

 Dip out 3 ladles of the cooking juices into a saucepan and add ¼ cup flour. Stir and heat until thickened into a wonderful gravy!

Now arrange meat on a platter with some of the stewed tomatoes. Serve the mashed potatoes with gravy by the side, and a big bowl of the roasted vegetables.


What a meal!



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Hurley Haywood


 urley Haywood is a car racing legend with a five 24 Hours of Daytona wins, two 12 Hours of Sebring wins, one Trans-Am title, three 24 Hours of Le Mans winner, and two IMSA GT championships. 
 
Hurley Haywood might have been a model. Graced with a trim frame, blond hair and Paul Newman-blue eyes, Haywood acquired the reputation of the most eligible bachelor in the world of racecar driving. Noted for his skill at driving endurance races he is tied as the most successful driver in Daytona history.

Through it all, Haywood maintained his privacy, much to the confoundment of his fans and the legions of women (and men) who swooned Now 70, Haywood's blue eyes still shine and his perfect smile captivates.

Then in his near perfect career, two major events happened that spun his world around. Last year Racing legend Hurley Haywood revealed the lifelong secret that threatened his picture-perfect image (being gay) and set the record straight about his co-driver's shocking death. 

His co-driver was Peter Gregg, the wealthy, star-crossed Harvard graduate who met Haywood, eight years his junior, at an autocross in Florida. Haywood, driving a Chevrolet Corvette, beat the ultra-competitive Gregg, who was driving a new Porsche 911, attended to by a pit crew. The two men struck up a relationship that lasted until Gregg died at age 40. 
 

To say Haywood and Gregg were close is an understatement: The two men even shared a birthday, May 4. But decades of rumors that cast the two as a couple are patently false, Haywood says. "The idea that Peter and I were lovers -- totally not true."
 
What was true: Gregg was a difficult, complex, brilliant man, with mental health issues that could be controlled by medication. "But Peter thought he was too smart to have to rely on medication," Haywood recalls. Once, Gregg lined up his lithium pills on his desk, then brushed them into the wastebasket. "I'm stronger than any drug," he said then. "He thought," Haywood says, "‘I can deal with this on my own.'" He couldn't.
 
He married Deborah Marrs, a 25-year-old art director, "a really nice girl," Haywood says, "who had no idea what she was getting into. Nine days after they were married, he killed himself." Peter Gregg ended his life with a .38-caliber bullet on Dec. 15, 1980. His body was found by a hiker near the beach south of Jacksonville. In his briefcase, he had left a suicide note that said, in part: "I just don't enjoy life anymore. I must have the right to end it."

His suicide affected Haywood deeply. Seven months earlier, Gregg was involved in a traffic accident in France en route to Le Mans. He was unable to race and was replaced in the 24 Hours by Derek Bell. Gregg's eyesight was affected, and he missed half the IMSA races that season, a tough blow for a man who was the winningest IMSA GT driver in series history. Gregg couldn't keep up, and it seems likely his vision issues were the cause. One day after having lunch with Hurley and the new wife, Gregg bought a pistol in the morning, killed himself in the afternoon.
 
No one knows what ultimately led Gregg to suicide, but Haywood suspects it was multiple factors, not the least of which was the realization that the man other racers called "Peter Perfect" was no longer the best. "Peter could not accept the fact that he was not the top dog anymore." "If I had been trained to look for trigger points," Haywood says, "I would have been able to see it well in advance."

Haywood is well aware that his sexual orientation will be the central takeaway for many readers and viewers. 'I started racing in 1969. The racing community has sort of known my sexuality. It's never been a problem, it's never been an issue, but it's never been something that's been publicly discussed before.

So why come out now?' Hurley described that he granted an interview to a young man that was in high school. "He was doing a term paper on the business of racing. About halfway through the interview, he stopped cold in his tracks and looked at me. He said, "I'm gay. I've been bullied my whole life. I wake up every morning and I want to commit suicide. I just don't see a path that I can take that's going to be successful. And my friend told me you would be a good person to talk to."

So, I said "you've got to remember a few things. It's not what you are, it's who you are that matters." It's the who part that people remember. What you are doesn't really mean anything in the great scheme of things. I said, "everybody has barriers they need to knock down. If you allow a barrier to block your flow of progress, you're not going to go anywhere. So you've got to be willing to commit to do what you want to do, and don't let any barrier stand in the way of your objective." The retired race car legend told the young men about a couple of places where he could go to get some support. 
 
"Two years later I got a call from his mother. I had this sinking feeling that she was calling to tell me he had committed suicide. And she said, "I just want you to know what you told my son saved his life." That coming from a mother is pretty heavy stuff. And I thought if my voice is strong enough to save one kid, maybe we can save two, or ten. 
 
Every 40 seconds an American commits suicide.

 
Think about that a minute. You know, the young, gay kids are having a hard time. Today's kids—the pressure on them is enormous, peer pressure. A lot of kids can't cope with that, especially a gay kid who maybe has some effeminate traits or acts differently than everybody else. They're a target for bullies. It's hard for kids to cope with that. So I figured if I could give a positive image to somebody, that's great." It's a powerful thing, coming out. It's still really shocking the effect it can have. There was no real need for it earlier. "I was sort of uncomfortable talking about it in the beginning. But the friends that I had, both teammates, team owners, and friends, knew I was gay. 



 It was not something we necessarily discussed a lot, but they knew it and I didn't have to hide it from them. I didn't know if my fans would be able to handle it. But the result—the book and the movie—has been really supportive. I've not gotten really one negative comment from anybody, and I've had thousands and thousands of replies. I just have people come up to me and say "I always thought you were a great racing driver, and now I realize you're also a great person." That's the biggest compliment I can ever get. Were there others? Other drivers in the closet? "No. Again, it's…you're in a sport that has a certain image to it. I think that active professional racing drivers have to worry about—not so much their own group, but to their sponsors. Their sponsors might not like someone that's gay representing their company. It's still something that is sensitive but is getting better. I didn't know anyone personally, but I'm sure there are others." 

 
It took nearly 40 years for him to come out publicly as gay in his 2018 autobiography Hurley: From The Beginning, which has been made into a documentary, simply titled Hurley, now available on streaming services and on demand. Still, this giant in racing is focused on raising awareness of the suicide epidemic in this country. He is lending his voice and stature to help the countless LGBT youth who might be considering this fatal mistake. 
 


Thursday, May 2, 2019

Brnabić Kofta Meatballs with Roasted Vegetables


Beef Kofta Meatballs with Roasted Vegetables are the perfect well-rounded easy dinner with an Eastern European flavor. The work is done in the oven.
This dish is dedicated to Prime Minister Ana Brnabić, of Serbia. She is believed to be the first prime minister in a same-sex couple whose partner gave birth while the prime minister was in office!

This dish is served various ways through Eastern Europe. Here we use beef and pork meatballs with roasted vegetables on a bed of rice. A rich lemon yogurt sauce tops it all off. Again a meat & two vegetables ~~ an entire meal that is deliciously different.


Ingredients

Roasted Vegetables

  • 1 zucchini
  • mushrooms
  • bell pepper
  • 1 pint grape tomatoes
  • 3/4 red onion
  • 2 Tbsp olive oil
  • ¼ tsp garlic powder
  • salt & pepper

Meatballs

  • 1 lb. ground beef
  • ½ lbs pork sausage
  • 2 cloves garlic, minced
  • ¼ red onion, minced
  • ½ cup crushed potato chips
  • ½ cup milk
  • 2Tbs Worcester Sauce
  • 2 Tbs parsley, chopped
  • ½ tsp paprika
  • ¾ tsp salt
  • 2 Tbsp cooking oil

Other

  • 4 cups cooked rice
  • 2 Tbsp parsley, chopped, for garnish
    Directions:


  • Preheat the oven to 400ºF. Dice the zucchini and yellow peppers. Reserve ¼ of the red onion for the meatballs and cut the remaining ¾ into ½ -inch slices. Place the chopped zucchini, onion, and peppers on a large baking sheet.
  • Drizzle the olive oil over the vegetables, then add the garlic powder, oregano, salt and pepper. Use your hands to toss the vegetables in the oil and spices until they are evenly coated. Spread the vegetables out evenly over the baking sheet. Set aside

Meatballs:

Crush a bowl of potato chips – I used sour cream & onion. Add ½ cup milk and 3 tbs of Worcestershire sauce. Turn on the oven to preheat to 400. While that is getting up to temperature, let the chips and milk sit to hydrate.

Chop the onion and garlic. When to oven is ready: In large bowl, mix all ingredients. Shape mixture into 24 (1½ -inch) meatballs. Place 1 inch apart in pan.


  • Then transfer both sheets to the oven. With the vegetables on the lowest rack.

  • (the meatballs will be ready at around 25 minutes) when temperature reaches 160°F and no longer pink in center. 


      Take them out and stir the vegetables- let them cook for another 15 – 20 minutes or wilted and browned on the edges

  • Once the meatballs are cooked and the vegetables have finished roasting, it's time to assemble the meal. Place about ½ cup cooked rice on each plate or container, add ¼ of the roasted vegetables, then top with three or four of the beef kofta meatballs. (reserve the rest of the meatballs for use latter. Bag in zipper bags and freeze.)
  • Serve with the lemon yogurt sauce.

Notes
You can substitute vegetables to match what is in season or on sale in your area at the time.
The word kofta comes from classical Persian meaning "to grind", reflecting the ground meat used for the meatballs.
In the former Yugoslav republics, present day Bosnia, Croatia, Montenegro, Serbia, and Slovenia, they are called ćufte or ćufteta. 
 

Lemon yogurt sauce
  • 3 Tbs. lemon juice
  • 1 garlic clove, finely grated
  • 1 tbs honey
  • ½ tsp. kosher salt + ½ tsp pepper
  • 1 cups plain whole-milk Greek yogurt

Preparation

  • Whisk lemon juice, garlic, salt, pepper, and honey into yogurt in a medium bowl to evenly distribute.
  • Do Ahead: Sauce can be made 1 day ahead. Cover and chill.
This makes a nice sauce to spoon over the plate.



What a wonderfully different meal for when things get boring!


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Ana Brnabić


 
Ana Brnabić, a graduate of the University of Hull in England, is Serbia's first female Prime Minister. She is also the Balkan nation’s first gay PM.
Brnabić entered politics just three years when she became Serbia’s first openly gay minister, heading the ministry for public administration and local self-government.
She studied in the US and graduated in Hull with a marketing MBA in 2001, before returning to Serbia to work in the wind power industry and then for US-funded development projects.

Goran Miletić, a civil rights activist and Belgrade Pride organizer, said: “Even in some western countries it would be big news and a positive signal if a gay or lesbian person became prime minister or minister. It is even more important for a country where 65% believe that homosexuality is an illness and 78% think that homosexuality should not be expressed outside homes. The appointment of a lesbian can only be a positive message.”

Her government was voted into office in June 2017 by a majority of 157 out of 250 Members of the National Assembly of Serbia.
In 2018, Brnabić was ranked by Forbes magazine as the 91st most powerful woman in the world and as the 21st most powerful female political and policy leader.

The appointment of Ana Brnabić as Serbia’s prime minister was accompanied by the sound of glass ceilings being shattered all around her.
Not only is she the first woman to take on the role, Brnabić is gay and has achieved high office without being a member of a political party.

Giving her first interview to a foreign newspaper after a month in the job, she said: “Serbia is changing and changing fast, and if you will, I am part of that change, but I do not want to be branded ‘Serbia’s gay PM’. The message we need to send is about competence, professionalism and trustworthiness.”

Brnabić is dedicated to transforming the image and reality of Serbia, working punishing hours with a largely young team on administrative reforms to prepare it for eventual EU membership. “We are a country that does not have time to lose,” she said.
In her early 20s Brnabić spent six years abroad, mainly in London, she watched on TV as Nato planes bombed the defense ministry in Belgrade in 1999. To this day the buildings are a shell, a reminder of Serbia’s loss of Kosovo. They also highlight the dangers facing the Balkans as the west and Russia fight for strategic advantage.



Although as a gay Serbian citizen she cannot marry, Brnabić does not plan to push LGBT legal reforms at this stage.
“The reason why I am not focused on that now is because I deeply, truly believe Serbia will be a more tolerant society once people have jobs, better paid jobs, don’t have to care about their own livelihood, or the future of their own children, and do not have to worry about two or three generations living in the same flat,” she said.
“I don’t think Serbia is that homophobic. I understand attitudes are different in parts of Serbia. But some journalists were in a village in central Serbia where part of my family come from. They saw a couple of people just drinking beer in front of the local store and they asked them about me, and they replied: ‘Well, listen, in this part of Serbia we grow raspberries, fruit and vegetables, and we do not grow discrimination.’
“We can have a culture where we disagree, as long as there is tolerance and no violence. We all have different views and values, but I don’t want to change people’s thinking by law.”
In conversation, Brnabić is smart, pragmatic and agile. Given Serbia’s delicate balancing act between Europe and Russia, she needs to be.


“We spent the first three years focusing on the economy, mostly turning the Titanic away from the iceberg of bankruptcy.” Administrative changes and, crucially, reforms to the rule of law are next. “If we do not have rule of law and effective and transparent judiciary, everything else will start crumbling down,” she said.

In 2017, she became the first head of government of any Balkan country to attend a gay pride march when she attended one in Belgrade. In 2019 her partner Milica Đurđić gave birth to a boy; Brnabić is therefore believed to be the first prime minister in a same-sex couple whose partner gave birth while the prime minister was in office.
Brnabić holds an MBA diploma of the University of Hull and worked for over a decade with international organizations, foreign investors, local self-government units, and the public sector in Serbia.

She keeps her hands full: Last December, Commenting on the announced transformation of the Security Force into the Kosovo Armed Forces, Brnabić said: “I hope we won’t have to use our military, but at the moment, that’s one of the options on the table because one cannot witness a new ethnic cleansing of the Serbs and new Storms - although some are calling for them. When someone knows you have a strong army, then they have to sit down and talk to you”.
Brnabić navigates the country as it prepares for EU membership while retaining its traditionally close relationship with Russia, and nurturing a growing friendship with Beijing. What a tightrope!