Who's In Here?

When you don’t like the person that you’ve become, you had better start changing quick! ‘cuz that’s the one room mate you can’t ever evict!

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At times the biggest challenge in life is to become the type of person that YOU yourself would date or even be around!

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First you have to discover who you are. We all should take time to understand ourselves. What are our needs? Then what are our wants? We must understand the difference between the two. Most importantly, then we find, not what we DO, but what we ARE!

Finding you are a submissive can be frightening. Especially if you allow it to be accompanied by all of the myths and prejudices surrounding the term.

Why should a servant be considered less valuable than a Master? Aren’t all of the steps on a staircase of equal stature? Their position, merely a matter of geography, not of importance?

Often it is inferred if one chooses to be subservient to another, it is a sign of feeling inferior. There will always be someone richer than you, just as there will always be someone even poorer. Yet so many times, when we compare ourselves to others, we feel we are not “as good”. It is part of human nature. Don't let it limit what you can be.

A post on one popular website put it this way:

“The first trick is believing that you CAN be worth someone's while... Think about what you can offer.”

                                                                 FluffySama

Another put this spin on it:

“..You are doing what every worthwhile sub needs to do, exploring your needs, wants, and desires. Good. Don't feel bad about that. Now, prioritize all of that. Your NEEDS are most important. Your WANTS may be things that you will need to drop. But be true to your slave heart. ...see how they all fit together. Those that don't fit, drop.”

                                                                Master_Thom

Through this all, keep learning:

“..I think a submissive boy never stops learning. It's part of the job/kink. Never underestimate the power you hold. It's quietly given.”

                                                                JCTrick

It takes far greater strength to give control than to take control. You have that strength within your slave's heart. Know your journey is one that is as old as spirituality itself. Submission can be the soul's longing to be or to merge with a Godhead. The dynamic of God and child is replayed in many different forms and ways.

“May you know the serenity of letting go in helplessness and the joy of exercising control. In all Willed acts of acceptance and Love we find ourselves as gods.”

                                                          Unknown Author

So as the title of one of slave's favorite books and movies urges: “Now, Voyager”

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